Do you know how to talk to people so they will listen?

Sometimes we try to persuade someone to do some thing, but ends bad. Just as Ken Ward's example in his article, if you tell some one the house is dirty, it will not motivate him to clean the house.

He also said, "People, you and I, act to get good feelings or to get something that gives us good feelings". So how to talk motivated is important. He told us in order to use this motivating technique, you need to know how to makes others feel good. You will need to really care about people, and you will need to be interested in using this technique. Think this way and do things this way with people around you can improve your interpersonal skills.

We all like to hear compliments, but good compliments sounds good is because it sounds like trues.

Here is the link for the article: http://www.trans4mind.com/personal_development/Vignettes/Beneficial.htm